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“Karena itu, apa yang telah dipersatukan Allah, tidak boleh diceraikan manusia". Telah terucap janji setia dialtar gereja, dihadapan Tuhan, dihadapan pendeta, dihadap orang tua dan sanak saudara. Berjanji untuk tetap setia, tetap bersama, tidak akan boleh diceraikan oleh siapapun, sampai maut memisahkan” “Na olo do ho manganjuanju dohot hagaleonna, tung sura humurang parangena, jala na so tupa paulahonmu manang tadingkononmu ibana paima disirang hamatean hamu sogot? Molo naung sada roham mangoloi saluhutna I, dok ma: Olo” “Olo do ho mangkaholongi ibana sian nasa roham dohot marpangalaho na ture maradophon ibana dohot marparangehon parange na badia, paboa halak Kristen ho; jala na so tupa mahilolong ho manang tadingkononmu ibana, paima disirang hamatean hamu sogot ? Molo naung sada roham mangoloi saluhutna I, dok ma : Olo” Dung ditompa Debata  jolma I , didok Ibana ma : Ndang denggan sasada baoa I punjung, hubahen ma di ibana sada boruboru pangurupi di ibana b...

Understanding other is so important, but understanding your self is the first thing that you have to do.  If you are not understanding about your self you can't do that to the other people. Before you hate or judge someone,  please make sure that you have been really know about their life, about their strugles or their suffering. You have to know that there is no body perfect. Everyone have their own life no exception to you.  If you want to be treated well,  let's treat others well.  If you need other people understand you,  please you understand them also.  The most important thing you have to do first,  you have to understanding your self.  Than, it will feel light to understand others. And finally you can be happy to see other people happy.

It's not easy to change our mind when the selfishness is still be a queen in our heart. Will be there's a time when you feel your mind so crowded or it is in a mess.  May be you'll try to heal,  but finally you can't accept the fact that you actually failed to heal your own heart. How sad,  but that's the reality. The world is offering us everything.  It depends on us, what we want to take?. We often choose the wrong path. That finally leaves regrets. Regret makes you stressed, slumped and rebelled.  You can't change but you can't move forward.  Fights is rampant.  The fights can't stop because selfishness is a queen in the heart. 02.12.2019 18.59